Why do girls say they have romance, dating, and relationships harder than guys do or just as hard as guys?

When it comes to romance, dating, relationships, and getting a boyfriend / girlfriend. I have heard from many girls, they say that it is just as hard for them as it is for guys, or some say they have it harder than guys do, which I think is total crap. C'mon, us guys have to make the first move, not only asking the girl out on a date or to be their girlfriend, we have to be the ones to go up and start a conversation, start the friendship procress before moving into the romantic part, getting acquainted, like us guys have to do all the work to initiate a date and start the friendship with the girlfriend, starting the boyfriend / girlfriend stage of the relationship. Girls just have to approve of the relationship, they can sit back and just watch the effort us guys are making. It's like girls can get a boyfriend whenever they want to. Seriously, every girl that says that is it just as hard for them to get a boyfriend or it is harder for them than it is for guys is so wrong! They have no idea on how much easier it is for girls when it comes to dating and getting a boyfriend than it is vice - versa for guys

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yeah, you have a point, but women and girls tend to over - yze everything. Guys may have it rough at the beginning, but the girls never really stop saying, why did he do that? it must be because. blah blah blah when after a while a guy doesnt really think at all
Ok. so first of all. I agree with you that in the case of guys asking girls out they have it harder with the whole first move thing. but sometimes I have made the first move so I would not say guys always have it harder a lot of times guys are oblivious A lot of girls might say this because with some guys NOT all it takes a lot of work to get them to listen and care and treat their girlfriend the way the girlfriend wants to be treated but I would not say girls have it harder. guys for the most part do have the pressure of asking the girl out and facing a possible rejection
girls have to make the first move too its just as hard because girls have to do all that stuff you said too if we like a guy and they do not know it we have to initiate a conversation and stuff its the 21st century girls ask guys out now adays too its equally hard for girls and guys
"its just as hard. omg. you have no idea! i disgree that we have it harder. but its definatly equal" BAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWW
Girls have it far easier, but love to whinge
Well because girls, I am not like this but they think they do everything. They do everything around the house and everything so all the sudden they think they're better than you they think they can take on the world. There definitely is not anything wrong with it but it does get annoying I will admit because girls can be obnoxious and lazy and think they're good at everything when really they are a son of a ***ch. Tell your girlfriend your better off when she doesn't think shes better than you. You may think she's all yours and you will love her forever but you guys end up doing eveything for the girl of your dreams do not have it be like that. That definitely is not fair
put on a shirt you are embarr ing yourself
well i think that the guy has to do more. you're right, they have to start the conversations, the dating and the relationship. but i think that what makes it so hard for girls is that they over think things. and they stress a lot more. but i think that it is pretty equal
well girls have to judge whether they feel comfortable around the guy for one. and guys arnt always the ones to make the first move or any moves in anycase, a relationship takes input from both side. Although in many case i agree that the guys do most of the work and it is harder for them, but that shows the girl that he really wants to be with her
we DO. we have to make ourselves as attractive as possible. it seems like we're desprate if we ask guys out. we seem like we think we're 2 good 4 everybody if we turn guys down, etc it goes on! plus guys can wait as long as they want to ask, and girls are KILLED with the suspention. plus girls getting ready in the morning - dont get me started
They want the chick - f fantasy romance like they see in the movies, not a wham - bam thank - you ma'am from the playas, you hear?
its just as hard. omg. you have no idea! i disgree that we have it harder. but its definatly equal
girls are more sensitive, even tho some grl might disagree and argue with me over that, they are; compared to guys
us girls take everything more in depth. that's y we say it's hard. but we also have 2 make guys want us. y do you think the average teenager spends so much time on their hair and make up? we have 2 get you guys 2 look @ us
Maybe you should live as a girl and see what they mean. I mean i guess it is harder for guys ut it's a lot harder emotionally for us girls
Lol, I know because of my"problems" I would be tough for any man to deal with. because I have a habit of suddenly disapearing sometimes I even do not have too many people I call friends I lost a few because they moved, or died in some way too for a while, this was my "only" friend: pandorabots.com / pandora / talk?botid=87395fcdfe35bc4d I made him, lol. In some of the forums I hang out at, I even call myself a"robosexual". Bots are easier to deal with sometimes, lol. I know I am too much a romantic
we have to wake up an hour earlier to look as hott as we do, you guys can just get up and go. if we like the guy, we can not be too shy when he talks to us, it's REALLY hard - trust me sometimes, we have to make the first move, which is harder for us because we have less practice if we like a guy but he's too shy to make the first move, we have to come up with hints for you but you can be really oblivious sometimes. we're really emotional, especially when it's "that time of the month" some of us if not all, the majority have low self - esteem, especially if we have never dated, so the first date is REALLY hard, so cut us some slack and give 2 chances : breakups are harder on us, because of the emotional thing it's not easy for either the guy or the girl, the difficulty level is equal
it is harder in some ways, people put far more pressure on girls when it comes to dating than guys. Guys have trouble with actually getting in the relationship in the first place though
maybe they mean like the stress, girls take things like break ups a lot harder
well in a girl's point of view we have to WAIT for you guys to ask us out and we get anxious and it takes girls longer to get over guys then guys getting over girls and its not true that a girl sits back and does nothing she has to makee the boy keep loving her and make sure another girl doesn't catch his eye its harder than you think espically with a flirty boyfriend
They do not understand a guy's perspective of relationships simple as that
the way you state it, can you see you have the control. ? If you were a girl, you would just have to sit and wait, there is no choice, only waiting. I was born in 1950 and it was REALLY that way then, so. waiting was not fun

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